“It is the worst thing in the world to be laying in your bed, dying, and having a lawyer ask you questions about who should get what,” Ms. Moore, 69, a sweater designer from New York City, said. “If you wait until the last minute, you’re in such a bad place.” The comments by readers reveal the heartbreaking stories of caregivers and those left behind. There’s a better way. Call my office for a consultation to discuss your personal situation.